Thursday, April 4, 2013

Again

Tonight he sent me two more texts. They said well good night and you didn't write back. Finally I came up with an excuse and said I was good. Left it at that! Lol

1st Contact

I initiated contact after 15 day. I probably should have waited 20. It went something like this. I'm bored! How are you? He responded by telling me he was having a drink with friends then asked how I was doing 10 minutes later. Ill wait till Tommorrow to respond with something like sorry I just got your messages or something.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Rejection

Remember men hate feeling rejection. It drives them crazy. When they know your dating other men. It will bother them. It is something about losing what's theirs to someone else and being replaced!

Got passed week 1! Now going to find hotter dates!

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

What Men Want

Men always say they want a good girl, someone honest, who doesn't play games, and what not. The truth is they just say this to look better and to make themselves feel better.

Men don't want honest women. They don't want women who will tell them up front how they feel or someone who treats them great. Don't bother putting yourself out there because its heart ache.

Guys want the chase and can't stand rejection. They want what they can't have.

Case and point. I started dating a guy Nd was up front about how I felt and what I wanted. I felt insecure and held on plus chased him. This pushed him away. This is something no girl should ever do. Don't do this.

Now I am conducting an experiment to see if it works. Not sure it will. It may be to late but I will know soon enough.

1st I have initiated the no contact rule. I have not talk to him for a week so far but it has been hard.

2nd we are on the same dating site. It is how we met. So I keep updating my caption to stuff like just got back from speed dating or going clubbing and what not. This shows I am not waiting around moping. I have put similar stuff on my Facebook. I have put some pics of me and guy friends on both. He has viewed my dating profile several times

3rd I stay busy not to think about it. This includes dating and hobbies and what not!

This is just phase 1. It seems underhanded but are guys really that honest when you think about it. Make them suffer like we do.

Now this is just an experiment. Lets see if it works. Today is week 1. I'll keep you updated!